How to Manifest a Boyfriend
Waiting for love can be difficult. We are conditioned from a very young age to desire that fairy-tale type of love that we see in every movie.
As we grow up, these dreams can sometimes feel very far away. The good news is you don’t have to wait forever. There are actions you can take today that will help you manifest a boyfriend.
Follow these steps to start manifesting the man of your dreams.
1. Set Your Intentions – Who Is Your Perfect Man?
You want a boyfriend, but you don’t want just any guy. When ordering from the Universe, you need to be as specific as possible.
Don’t trust the Universe to serve you the guy it thinks you want. Tell it what you want. One of the best ways to do this is to write it down.
Pick 15-20 qualities that you want in your perfect boyfriend and write them in a list. Remember, there are no limits to what the Universe can give you.
How does your perfect boyfriend look?
What is his job?
How much does he make?
How chivalrous is he?
What are his love languages?
What’s important to him?
What does he do for fun?
How are his friends?
Write up your list so that the Universe knows exactly what you want.
Although the boyfriend you manifest might not check every single box, you’ll be surprised to find how many he does.
2. Visualize Your Relationship
Visualization is the most exciting part of manifestation (other than the actual manifestation).
It is very similar to daydreaming, but you do it proactively.
You should practice visualization at least once a day, for a minimum of 30 seconds.
It’s even better to do it every morning when you wake up and at night before you sleep.
To visualize, you need to sit or lay in a comfortable position. Close your eyes and imagine your perfect boyfriend standing in front of you.
Imagine you are together and doing something fun. Picture your boyfriend, how he acts, and how he treats you. Picture how you treat him. Include aspects that you wrote about in your list.
Most importantly, recognize how it feels to have him. What emotions does your dream boyfriend bring out in you? Focus on the joy, happiness, gratitude, and love. This is what causes your vibrations to begin attracting him into your life.
As smart as it is, your brain doesn’t know the difference between dream and reality. When you visualize your perfect boyfriend and how it feels to be with him, your brain thinks it’s real.
You will begin to vibrate to the frequency of having your perfect boyfriend in your life, triggering the magnetic pull.
3. Other Manifestation Practices
There are so many manifestation practices you can incorporate into your life other than visualization. Some of the best ones include journaling, creating a vision board, and speaking affirmations. Include whichever ones excite you the most.
4. Focus On Yourself & Let Go of Limiting Beliefs
One of the golden rules of manifesting a significant other is that you need to love yourself first. It is impossible to attract your dream partner into your life if you don’t feel that you even deserve it.
Working on yourself will help raise your vibrations and pull you into a state of self-love.
Do activities that feel good to you; go to the gym, eat healthy, spend time with close friends and family, and work towards your dreams.
Only once you are in alignment with yourself can you manifest your perfect boyfriend.
5. Trust the Universe & Let It Go
Now that you put in your order and incorporated manifestation exercises into your life, it’s time to let go. This is one of the most difficult parts of manifestation. You have to remember that if you are consciously wanting a boyfriend, it puts you into the frequency of not having a boyfriend.
There is a line you must walk between desiring and manifesting.
You need to put your trust fully in the Universe and believe that your perfect boyfriend is coming into your life, regardless of anything you do.
By trusting the Universe fully, you enter into the vibration of already having a boyfriend- simply because you know it’s coming.
6. Be Open to Unexpected Possibilities
You have done everything you need to do to manifest a boyfriend into your life. The Universe is ready to serve you. Now, your top priority is making sure you are open to receiving your boyfriend. Oftentimes, the Universe will send your boyfriend to you in unexpected ways. Sometimes they will feel like happy coincidences. You need to be open to all possibilities.
He might appear through the actions of someone you know. For example, if a friend randomly reaches out about this person you just have to meet, go meet him. If they invite you to a party that you don’t really feel like going to, still go. This could be the Universe’s way of aligning you to meet.
It is also possible the Universe can spontaneously bring you to the same location. Maybe you’ll run into him on the street, or your car will break down, and he’ll pull over to help you.
It could be anything. The Universe will do whatever it needs to do to make sure you meet. You only need to be open to it and not shut any doors preemptively.
Also, sometimes the Universe will surprise you with something better than what you tried to manifest. You need to be prepared for not getting exactly what you asked for, but what the Universe deems fit considering everything.
Trust the Universe – it knows best.
Overall, manifesting a boyfriend can be a fun yet difficult experience. While deciphering your perfect order can be exciting, letting go and trusting the Universe to fulfill your desires is always challenging.
Manifestation is a long process filled with moments of belief and doubt. The best thing you can do is never to stop trying. Your perfect boyfriend will come- you just have to keep believing in it and working towards it.